Can You Really Tell If "He Is The One"?
Dating and Intution from a Dating Expert

Can you train your Intution to tell if someone is "The One" on the first date?

Or even that he's not only not Mr. Right...but also Mr. Never Ever.

As a Dating and Relationship Coach with a specialty as an Online Dating Coach, quite a number of my clients seek me out when they are returning to dating whether it is after a romantic relationship break up, their divorce, re-entering the dating game for some reason like finding their career is a success… but they are alone and don’t want to be. When that is the case, quite often singles over 30 and over 40 and even over 50 are feeling trepidations about dating again and even about posting an Online Dating profile.

When we are first working together, I go through an extensive Dating and Romantic Relationship defining workbook process with them to help them to think about their many choices as singles and to decide upon what they want in a romantic relationship, and truly what they DON’T want as well.

Just as some examples:

Do you want a romantic relationship?

Do you want a casual sex relationship?

Do you want a sexually open relationship?

Do you want to get married?

Do you want more children?

What metro area do you want to live in?

What does the relationship you want look and feel like?

Once we have that in place then it makes sense to create and publish a great online dating profile at the internet personals, but not really beforehand.

How to Get More Dates

Once what they want and don’t want is defined, one of the best ways to address stress and anxiety about doing something is, indeed, to go do it. A LOT. The same is the case with dating. For singles re-entering the dating game, I suggest they go on a LOT of dates. LOTS and LOTS of dates. Indeed, my Dating Tips Blog at VOX and in my dating ebooks, I offer over 100 ways and means for them to meet more people and to get more dates.

Developing Successful Romantic Relationship Skills

Once dating becomes part of their new habits and norms, indeed, their stress thoughts and anxiety feelings about dating diminish. “I am dating” is now part of their NEW identity and state of being. There is scientific research about how DOING something is often the most effective means to self-influence a change in ourselves, more effective than just discussing it at the conscious analytical mind level. When we DO something new, we are opening new neuro-pathways in our brains. When we continue to do the new behavior, we strengthen those pathways and develop a new skill: Romantic Relationship Skills

As an added benefit, they are learning HOW to date well and how to create new relationships and enjoy meeting and connecting with new people, which always enhances our enjoyment of our lives. And who knows? You just might create the romantic relationship you’ve always dreamt of and get married.

Happy Dating and Relationships to you!

April Braswell

Online Dating and Relationship Coach

www.AprilBraswell.com

April is an expert in Creating Romance and Relationships for women over (dare I say it) 40 years old and helping them with their unique problems in the dating world.

Source: http://www.AprilBraswell.com

 
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